Archive for ‘Rant’

October 18th, 2009

Do It Yourself

I’ve recently learned that Hubby’s friends must think I’m some sort of fulfillment center for all their internet and computer needs…and it drives me insane.  I mean how many times do I have to say “no I will not fix that” or “no I will not look that up”? 

I mean I don’t mind fixing things from time to time when it needs to be done, but I’m seriously tired of the same 3 people showing up over here every few weeks with laptops that are on the verge of death because they can’t follow the simple instructions that I give them every single time I fix the same problem!   

Then of course there is the one friend who call me at all hours of the day and night because he needs cheat codes for his stupid video games even though I’ve told Hubby 1000 times to tell the guy to stop calling me.  I’ve stopped answering the phone when I see his number pop up because I know what he wants.

Sigh.  I think the pregnancy hormones may be getting to me tonight.

July 24th, 2009

Not So Safe Anymore

Bohemian Thieves Beware

flickr/squeakywheel

We live in an area where we’ve never had to worry much about crime.  Honestly up until a few months ago we regularly left at least one door unlocked when we weren’t going to be gone for more than a couple hours.  We’ve got neighbors all around us who do the same thing, and everyone watches out for everyone else.  Most of the time no one can set foot in our yard without someone seeing them.  If someone pulls into our driveway in a car my grandparents don’t know I can guarantee they’ll ask about it.  Living here I’ve always felt relatively safe…until now.

One of the things that has been bothering me so much over the last 2 weeks is how the crime rate in our little neighborhood has skyrocketed.  About 3 weeks ago things started disappearing out of yards during broad day light.  The next weekend there were two break ins.  Both were in the middle of the afternoon.  The first one the guy’s vehicles were in the driveway, and it looked like he was home.  The conclusion was that the thief had to be watching the house to know the guy and his wife left in a friend’s vehicle. The second break in, it was obvious the thief(s) knew the homeowner’s routine…retired couple who only left the house for dinner in the early evening for about an hour.

Since then things have been disappearing again from people’s yards and people are reporting strange activity around the area.  It’s enough to make me worry.  My doors and windows are locked up tight, and we’ve been trying to take every precaution we can short of buying ourselves a gun for protection which is something I’d definitely do if I could afford it.  (I’m VERY pro on my right to bare arms, and I believe I have the right to self defense.)

A friend suggested we check into getting home insurance to see if it covers our belongings in the event of theft.  I can’t get a home insurance quote since we are technically renters, but I am thinking about checking into renter’s insurance. I’d love to get it now, but it’s one of those things that will have to wait until we can afford it…ya know with the job situation and all.

Speaking of the job situation…of course it’s related to the crime rates!  Our area didn’t really feel the affects of this economy and job market until recently. Within the last month or so the unemployment rate has drastically skyrocketed, and people are definitely getting desperate. It just pisses me off that someone is willing to stoop to that level, though.

Yeah Hubby’s out of a job. My work flow has definitely dropped over the last few months, and we’re definitely struggling. We may not know where our next car payment is coming from, but I sure as hell know we’re not going to steal it.  It seems like more and more people are doing just that, and it’s scary watching the crime rates rise.

Just last night we found ourselves scared to death when two guys carjacked someone then began randomly shooting at homes in the area before fleeing on foot. I’m not saying this particular incident was related to unemployment, but it’s scary all the same.  There was a huge manhunt going on in the wooded areas around our house, and the guys were definitely considered armed and dangerous.

When we learned SWAT was searching near our home Hubby made the decision we should leave. We had no guns in the house to protect us, these guys were randomly shooting at homes and here I am pregnant…not to mention my uncle’s used car lot is next door, so it would be the next likely place for a carjacker to go when trying to flee from a manhunt!

A couple hours after we left I got word from a friend in law enforcement they had caught the one guy, very close to our house no less, and the other guy had fled but he thought it was safe for us to head back home. This morning my cousin confirmed that the carjackers had definitely headed for the car lot.  Two cars had windows busted out, but apparently they had been unable to steal either one.  We’re very lucky they didn’t decide to try to break into our house or hide out in any of our barns.  Seriously, what kind of world are we living in when I now have to leave MY own home because people are randomly shooting at homes? It’s scary!

June 28th, 2009

Ulterior Motives

Why does my Grandmother insist on always having an ulterior motive or hidden agenda?  I admit I don’t get along very well with my Grandmother on my Dad’s side of the family for that very reason.

She called me today asking me to go to lunch tomorrow with her and her sisters.  I declined, and in turn she had quite a few choice things to say to me.  Let her say what she wants.  I’d rather spend 10 minutes listening to her berate me than being stuck with her and her 2 sisters for lunch where all hell would break loose.

I already know what she wants.  She uses the excuse that she wants to see me and see how my belly has grown.  In reality I know she already hit up my sister last week, and they had a big blow up in the middle of a very nice restaurant.  She tries to lure us in with food and the promise that we’re going to use the time to reconnect.  All is well for the first half of the meal when while we watch her and her sisters turn their nose up at everyone else like they are some sort of special elite class of southern belles (which they are certainly not).

They’ll spend a bit discussing everything from the best wrinkle creams to all the local town gossip then she goes in for the kill. She will motion for our aunts to give her a few moments alone with us, and then she strikes…trying to convince us to do everything from breaking up my dad and his girlfriend to leaving my husband just because he’s “not good enough for her”.  When we tell her she’s full of it she then tells us it’s all our mother’s fault we have no respect for her and her wishes, and she bad mouths my mother in every form possible.

Well this is one lunch I’ll be missing.  I vowed after our big blowout last Christmas not to give the woman anymore of my time, and I’m just not going to do it.  As much as I wish I could have a loving relationship with her, I can’t, and I apologize to my wonderful Grandpa who is probably rolling over in his grave right now.

May 30th, 2009

Acting Like A Child

It’s so pretty outside today that I thought we’d have an awesome day.  We had a little shopping to do, so I thought we’d head out this morning for breakfast, do our shopping, and then enjoy being outside in this beautiful weather.

Oh how wrong I was.  This is one of those days I wish would end immediately so maybe we can start on a better day.  Hubby woke up horribly grumpy and with the mindset of a 2 year old during the middle of their worst terrible 2 stage.  His allergies finally decided to make an appearance, and he’s not very happy about it.  Of course he refuses to take any meds to make him feel better, so I get to spend the day babying the grump.

When he’s in a grumpy mood it seems to put everyone he comes in contact with in a grumpy mood as well.  Today everything is making his mood worse.  We went to Tractor Supply to pick up a bag of dog food, and he got pissy because he had to wait at checkout for a whole 2 minutes.

We were supposed to go check out the prices at the tuxedo rental store in town so I can budget in how much we’ll be spending on a rental for our friend’s wedding, but he drove right past the place, so I knew better than to mention it. He also drove right past the grocery store which was the main place I needed to go, and then he yelled that he didn’t feel like going there. Well then why the heck did you even leave the house in the first place?

Then we went to Zaxby’s for lunch because that’s what he wanted, but he refused to order anything because he suddenly couldn’t find anything on the menu he liked anymore.  Then he pouted the whole way home because he wanted Zaxby’s fries, and it was all my fault I ordered a salad instead of something with fries.

Seriously, he’s acting like a pouty little toddler, so when we got home I decided to let him be, but then he got pissy because he was “lonely” watching tv by himself.  I have totally had it, and I’m to the point where I’m ready to just leave, go shopping, and hope he’s in a better mood when I come home.  I don’t know why the heck he thinks it’s ok to act this way just because his sinuses are stuffy.  Take some freakin’ medicine and get over it already, but stop acting like a child!