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I woke up this morning on a mission to spend the day preparing for a yard sale, but hours later I have yet to accomplish anything. I’ve got a cranky teething little one who doesn’t want to leave my lap and a 4 year old who is whining just because her sister is, too. *Sigh* My babies come first, so the yard sale stuff can wait.
I did manage to bribe them into letting me have a few minutes to work by giving them popsicles, so we’ll see how long that lasts. The rough draft for one of my freelance pieces is due this afternoon, so I really need to get that finished while they’re occupied, but I’m having a hard time concentrating on it at the moment.
Luckily it is almost finished because the Zillow alert for new home listings on my phone keeps going off and distracting me. It’s no secret we’re looking for a place to buy, but we’re still unsure of where to buy. We’re looking at places much closer to Ben’s job, and we want something that needs renovation but is still good enough to live in for now. I guess that’s one of the perks to being married to a carpenter. We can buy cheaper and renovate it into something we love, but we definitely have to settle on a location first.
The biggest issue is decided which start to live in. Ben’s job is close enough to the state line that we can purchase in SC or NC. I’m weighing the pros and cons of both states, and not just when it comes to home prices. I’m looking at school districts (I’m still unsure about public school or homeschooling), costs of living, even insurance rates because they vary so much between the two states.
I think I’m going to knock out this draft and start researching more on the insurance aspect of costs. I know I can’t get an exact quote based on living in NC unless we actually live there, but I can check out which doctors are in which networks. I know the doctor that was recommended to us in NC is in the BCBS network by looking at the doctor finder. I found it here when I was doing a little research last night, so I’ll look around to see if that site has anymore info for me.
If we choose to stay in SC we can stick with our current family doctor, so that’s a plus. The only issue is the cost of buying insurance out of pocket since we’re both contract employees. I really hate all this insurance mess. Oh well, I’ll deal with it later. It’s time to get my head in the game and get to work on this draft so I can prepare my yard sale items today, too. I really need to downsize on the amount of stuff we have before I even consider moving!
The good news is Ben got a great new job, and he started last week. The really great news is it’s first shift and a lot more money than the crappy factory job he was stuck in. The bad news…
He’s back in construction. The really bad news…
He’s stuck at home when the rain is pouring, and that means he has been driving me nuts!
The pay is well worth going back into construction, and it even makes up for dealing with getting rained out. Heck being back on first shift makes it worth it. I hate to admit it, but second shift took a major toll on our marriage. When I started this blog I made a promise to myself never to rant about my marriage and any issues we may have or things we may go through, but I feel I can freely say this without breaking that promise to myself.
I’m not proud of what happened to my marriage over the last half of 2013. The job took a toll on us both, and it ripped us at seams we never knew we had. Finally we both blew a lid in December and got our heads straight. We’ve spent the last few months working through our issues, focusing on us, and making sure were centering our marriage around God first. I can honestly say at this point our marriage is stronger than it was 6 months ago, and in a way I’m thankful Ben was placed in that job for a short time because it opened our eyes to problems we may not have faced right now, issues we may have faced 10 years from now instead.
Anywho, I’m glad we’re past all that. As we struggled to rebuild our marriage we both agreed second shift was a huge problem. Ben moved to third shift in an attempt to help things a bit. In most households third shift would probably be the “bad” shift, but for us it really helped our marriage. The only issue we had left with the job was the really crappy pay. Our budget was really suffering, and I’m thankful Ben was finally offered a position somewhere else. The months and months of searching, applying, and not getting the job were all worth it for this one opportunity. I truly feel God placed him on the path that is right for our family at the right time, and we both learned a lot of patience.
Now I just have to remind myself of that patience as he drives me crazy on rainy days lol! Yesterday he moped around all morning then surfed around the net on my laptop for awhile. Letting him do that was a bad idea! He spent the afternoon going on and on about an exciting washburn from guitar center he really wants and rambling forever and a day about rebuilding the tranny in the Duramax. Ok, I’m game for listening to car talk, but he has been rambling about this for weeks while gathering the parts. I was in a pretty crabby mood, so his endless rambling didn’t help my mood. I’m thankful to say the least he returned to work today even if he did have to miss some time this morning waiting for the drizzle to die off.
And what did I learn? Keep a set of earplugs handy on his days home from work! Better yet, have an extra honey do list ready and waiting to keep him busy! I’m sure he would really love that one!
You know what word is funny to say? Flugelhorn! I came across the flugelhorn at wwbw when I was doing some research on some prices for clarinet stuff for a friend, and I don’t know why I decided the word Flugelhorn is so funny. I saw the word on my screen and burst out laughing. Maybe it’s the lack of sleep from being up half the night with the kiddos, or all the whining I’ve listened to today. Either way I still find it funny!