Archive for December, 2010

December 30th, 2010

One Last Meme For 2010

Thursday Thunks: The New Year’s Edition

The TT questions are brought to you by Bud, the color of ripping this meme off of a Sunday Stealing from 2007 (way back before Judd & syndication when only 3 played) and the number 36936.

1. What did you do in 2010 that you’d never done before?

I finally tried a piece of raw sushi.  I eat the cooked varieties all the time, but I’ve always been a little scared of the raw stuff.  I must say it was pretty darn good.

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?

I don’t make them because I know I’d never keep them.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

My sister had my adorable nephew in June.

4. Did anyone close to you die?

Thankfully we didn’t deal with the loss of any loved ones in 2010.

5. What countries did you visit?

Just my own.

 
6. What would you like to have in 2011 that you lacked in 2010?

Financial stability


7. What dates from 2010 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

I honestly can’t say one particular date from this year will stay etched in my memory.  I will have a lot of memories from 2010, but none of them will be attached to particular dates.  Blame it on the fact that I’ve spent this year running off very little sleep and too much coffee.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

I made it through my first year of motherhood without feeling like a complete failure.

9. What was your biggest failure?

Not patching up my relationship with my sister the way I wanted.

10. What was the best thing you bought?

Honestly I’m not sure.  I didn’t make any big purchases this year.  Because of our financial situation we stuck to only the things that were needed.

 
11. Whose behavior merited celebration?

My own.  Since entered motherhood I’ve learned to bite my tongue more often and pay attention to how I react to situations.  I have to remember I have a pair of little eyes watching my every move.

12. Whose behavior made you appalled and disgusted?

My mother’s, but that’s a story for another day.

13. What song will always remind you of 2010?

Rock-a-bye Baby because I’ve spent many a night this year rocking and singing to my little girl through colic, teething, and just generally rough nights.  The song will always bring back memories of those nights with her.

14. What do you wish you’d done more of?

I wish I’d spent more time snuggling up on the couch with Hubby after the baby was asleep

15. What do you wish you’d done less of?

arguing with my sister

16. Did you fall in love in 2010?

I fell in love with my husband all over again, a new level of love I didn’t know existed, as I watched him grow from my husband to an adoring father.

17. Who did you miss?

I’ve spent a lot of time missing my Grandpa this year even though he passed away when I was 7.  Oh how I wish he’d had the chance to watch me grow from that little girl to the woman I am today with a little girl of my own.

18. Who was the best new person you met?

I really didn’t meet that many new people this year, and of the ones I did meet no one in particular stands out.

December 29th, 2010

Toddler Meltdown In Progress

Right now I’m really wishing I had one of those big soaking tubs, so I could curl up and soak in a big bubble bath with a book in one hand and a pot, yes a pot,of coffee in the other. It’s not even 10am yet, and this day has already gotten off to a pretty rough start.

Most of that comes from the little one having a really bad case of separation anxiety anytime Hubby leaves now.  She’s taken to waking up as soon as he does, clinging to him for hours, and then throwing the biggest temper tantrum ever if he leaves.  Since he’s still getting up most mornings bright and early to go job hunting it’s been happening a lot, and this week it’s only gotten worse. 

This morning has by far been the worst morning yet.  She woke up with him at 7am and clung to him until I had to pry her off his leg so he could leave at 8.  As soon as she realized he wasn’t here anymore she laid down in the floor and started screaming and head banging.  Yeah, I’m really not fond of the head banging, but I do realize it’s something some toddlers go through.  When I finally got that to stop she tried to climb the baby gate all the while still screaming for him.  I picked her up and spent about 30 minutes with her screaming, calling out “Daddy!”, and pointing towards another room.  I’d take her into the room she pointed at, she’d see that he wasn’t there, and the screaming would start again.

Nothing would console her, and anything I tried resulted in me getting my hair pulled or slapped.  Yeah, our child definitely has a combination of both of our tempers, and that is a nasty concoction.  She refused to eat her breakfast, threw her sippy cup at the dog anytime he walked in the room, and continued to hit everything in sight until about 15 minutes ago.  She finally tired herself out enough that she went down for a nap, but now I’m one tired and stressed mama, too.  I need caffeine and relaxation stat!  This is one stage of her toddler years that I won’t be sad to see go!

December 27th, 2010

Made It Through Christmas

Are you feeling a little depressed that Christmas is over, or are you glad it’s done with?  I’m feeling a little bit of both today.  I had a great time with all of our family and friends this weekend, I’m completely worn out, and I’m ready for a week or two of rest.  That doesn’t mean I’m happy to see Christmas go, though.  It came and went so fast it kind of let me wondering where all this new stuff in our house came from. 

I did enjoy watching Ellie open presents this year.  Last year she was 2 months old, so Christmas didn’t really involve a lot of stuff for her.  This year she had a blast tearing open presents even though it took her two hours to open her gifts Christmas morning.  That wasn’t because she had a lot to open.  She was just very slow and meticulous about how she opened them.  The paper had to be pulled off in tiny pieces, and each piece had to be thrown away before she’d take another piece off.  Do I have a little neat freak on my hands?  I kind of hope so!  We had a great time, though, and I can’t wait to see how she reacts to Christmas next year. 

I also enjoyed the Christmas snow (the only one I’ve ever seen) even though we had a minor accident in it Christmas night.  We didn’t let that dampen our mood, and we spent yesterday enjoying the snow between getting the truck out of the ditch and trying to clean up some of the mess leftover from the holiday before going to my Mom’s for one last Christmas dinner.  I still have a ton of cleaning to do.  It’s amazing how much stuff can pile up even when you feel like you’ve barely been home all weekend.  I’ve got laundry to do, dishes still piled up in the sink after running two loads through the dishwasher, and empty present boxes everywhere. 

We’ve still got toy sets to assemble, and Ellie got so much stuff I don’t know where I’m going to put it all.  We can thank our wonderful family for that.  They all went more than overboard shopping for the babies this year, and I can’t believe how much stuff she got.  I’m going to have to rearrange things in her room to make room for her new kitchen, nursery, and laundry sets. 

We’ve ran out of room in the play room, and I’ll have to start pulling things in the already crowded nursery.  I think it’s time to take her crib down and replace it with the toddler bed because it’s much smaller and will give us a little extra room for toys.  She prefers sleeping in the pack ‘n play right now anyway.  I really wish I’d bought a convertible crib like the one I saw when I was looking at atlantic furniture. I love that we got our whole nursery set for gently used for $200, but it would have been nice to have an all in one crib instead of having to tear that one down and drag the toddler bed out.  We’ll make it all fit somehow, but I never imagined 1 little child having so much stuff it’s running us out of our own house!