Archive for July, 2009

July 29th, 2009

Another Day Around The Casa

Wow.  Am I really making it to this blog to post before Thursday?  It seems like for once I am!  It seems as if things have calmed down here a bit.  We’re still having issues of the real world variety to deal with, but at least today I’m getting a chance to breathe.

I spent most of the morning sorting through more stuff to get rid of.  My aunt asked if she can have a yard sale here this weekend, and I agreed.  I figure if she’s going to have one I’ll pull out some of the stuff I haven’t sold yet along with the other stuff I’ve been too lazy to go through.

We seriously have too much junk.  Why do I need 6 Mp3 players anyway? We hardly ever use one!  We also have way too much office furniture that we don’t use. I don’t need 3 desks, but I was too lazy to drag them out during the last yard sale. I figure for every item we bring in for the baby we need to get rid of 2 of our own items to make room/keep things de-cluttered.  Hubby agrees, so that’s our new mission.  Heck, if I can make some cash in the process that’s great, too, since Hubby’s still laid off.

He’s going to put in some applications today while we’re out paying bills.  Hopefully I can knock out a few of the important things like utilities, and of course the truck taxes.  So far I’ve been able to keep everything paid and up to date, so hopefully things will stay that way.  I won’t really start worrying until I have to let something fall a month behind and/or get shut off.

Honestly I think at this point I’m spending more time worrying about us spending too much time at home together and driving each other crazy than I worry about the money situation.  Go figure.

July 25th, 2009

Struck Again

I’m really starting to think someone is just aching to get shot.  Seriously, the thief has struck again in our neighborhood, and honestly the more I think about it the more I feel like it has to be someone who lives around here.  The person knows more about the people in our area than some random thief should know.  People are getting angry, and in a place like this they’re pulling out their loaded guns.

Just yesterday a golf cart disappeared during the middle of the morning out of a garage 3 houses down from us.  The thief seemed to be watching the house because it disappeared while the owner was walking her dog…about a 30 minute walk.  Plus, unless you know the family just bought the golf cart about a month ago you wouldn’t know they had it.  It has stayed in the garage.

Today I also found out quite a few people are missing pieces of their outdoor furniture. My aunt came home last night to find a bench missing from her front porch, and quite a few other people have had tables and patio furniture disappear this week.  We drug all our patio furniture inside since my aunt lives right across the road from us.

I just hope whoever is doing this is ready for the consequences.  This person or persons have pissed off too many people in a very backwoods southern redneck community, and people are starting to prepare themselves.  The word is spreading, and many people are loading up their guns to fight back.  It’s not going to be pretty when the thief hits the wrong house.

July 24th, 2009

Not So Safe Anymore

Bohemian Thieves Beware

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We live in an area where we’ve never had to worry much about crime.  Honestly up until a few months ago we regularly left at least one door unlocked when we weren’t going to be gone for more than a couple hours.  We’ve got neighbors all around us who do the same thing, and everyone watches out for everyone else.  Most of the time no one can set foot in our yard without someone seeing them.  If someone pulls into our driveway in a car my grandparents don’t know I can guarantee they’ll ask about it.  Living here I’ve always felt relatively safe…until now.

One of the things that has been bothering me so much over the last 2 weeks is how the crime rate in our little neighborhood has skyrocketed.  About 3 weeks ago things started disappearing out of yards during broad day light.  The next weekend there were two break ins.  Both were in the middle of the afternoon.  The first one the guy’s vehicles were in the driveway, and it looked like he was home.  The conclusion was that the thief had to be watching the house to know the guy and his wife left in a friend’s vehicle. The second break in, it was obvious the thief(s) knew the homeowner’s routine…retired couple who only left the house for dinner in the early evening for about an hour.

Since then things have been disappearing again from people’s yards and people are reporting strange activity around the area.  It’s enough to make me worry.  My doors and windows are locked up tight, and we’ve been trying to take every precaution we can short of buying ourselves a gun for protection which is something I’d definitely do if I could afford it.  (I’m VERY pro on my right to bare arms, and I believe I have the right to self defense.)

A friend suggested we check into getting home insurance to see if it covers our belongings in the event of theft.  I can’t get a home insurance quote since we are technically renters, but I am thinking about checking into renter’s insurance. I’d love to get it now, but it’s one of those things that will have to wait until we can afford it…ya know with the job situation and all.

Speaking of the job situation…of course it’s related to the crime rates!  Our area didn’t really feel the affects of this economy and job market until recently. Within the last month or so the unemployment rate has drastically skyrocketed, and people are definitely getting desperate. It just pisses me off that someone is willing to stoop to that level, though.

Yeah Hubby’s out of a job. My work flow has definitely dropped over the last few months, and we’re definitely struggling. We may not know where our next car payment is coming from, but I sure as hell know we’re not going to steal it.  It seems like more and more people are doing just that, and it’s scary watching the crime rates rise.

Just last night we found ourselves scared to death when two guys carjacked someone then began randomly shooting at homes in the area before fleeing on foot. I’m not saying this particular incident was related to unemployment, but it’s scary all the same.  There was a huge manhunt going on in the wooded areas around our house, and the guys were definitely considered armed and dangerous.

When we learned SWAT was searching near our home Hubby made the decision we should leave. We had no guns in the house to protect us, these guys were randomly shooting at homes and here I am pregnant…not to mention my uncle’s used car lot is next door, so it would be the next likely place for a carjacker to go when trying to flee from a manhunt!

A couple hours after we left I got word from a friend in law enforcement they had caught the one guy, very close to our house no less, and the other guy had fled but he thought it was safe for us to head back home. This morning my cousin confirmed that the carjackers had definitely headed for the car lot.  Two cars had windows busted out, but apparently they had been unable to steal either one.  We’re very lucky they didn’t decide to try to break into our house or hide out in any of our barns.  Seriously, what kind of world are we living in when I now have to leave MY own home because people are randomly shooting at homes? It’s scary!

July 24th, 2009

Frazzled

It seems like lately I’m lucky if I’m getting one day a week to devote to my blogs, and honestly I’m sorry for that.  I really haven’t had time to devote to much of anything lately except for that thing we all hate to think about called real life.  My email accounts are overflowing with 2 weeks worth of mail, I haven’t read any twitter messages, and let’s not even discuss the way my house looks right now.  Things have definitely gotten away from me.

I haven’t even had the chance to share how the ultrasound went, but I promise to devote a full post to that in a bit hopefully complete with the pics.  I have a few other things on my mind I’ve been wanting to get out as well, but we’ll see if I have enough time for that.  As usual I’m working with a short time span here, and I’ll be lucky to even touch my email.

The truth is the last 2 weeks have been a big emotional roller coaster that have kept me from sharing much of anything with anyone be it online or in real life.  I haven’t had the time or the sanity.  A lot of that can be blamed on good ‘ole pregnancy hormones and their tendency to make me extremely over emotional.


Ah, but when it rains it definitely pours.

I’d say the rest can be blamed on all the events that have popped up and collided head on making life really difficult right now.  This has definitely been one of our lowest points in life, but we’re dealing with it.  Needless to say that (combined with Hubby being home almost constantly) has drained what little bit of sanity I might have had left.

After 2 weeks of letting it all pile on my shoulders I had to put my foot down and face it all.  I came to the conclusion that I needed to kick my Husband out of the house for the day if I wanted to retain any ounce of sanity, and I had myself a good ‘ole cry fit.  Sometimes that’s really all it takes to put things in perspective.  Life still sucks right now, but at least my shoulders feel a little lighter and my head isn’t spinning.